go find less babe 🤏🏻

Happy Wednesday bestiessss! We’re officially in March!! Spring is coming with full force and I couldn’t be more excited. I cannot WAIT to be in my summer uniform of a bikini and flip flops because when that day comes I will be INSUFFERABLE hahaha 👙🌴🫧

This week’s GIRL DINNER episode was on the topic of being told you’re too much. You have so much love to give however the person that you’re with doesn’t want to receive it. It’s a vicious cycle. You’re constantly left with confusion as to whether you’re giving too much or the other person clearly just wants less. Here’s the simple solution. If they want less. Let them go and find it. You should never have to limit yourself and how much love you want to give someone just because they’re making you feel like you’re giving too much. You’re not. They’re just incapable of receiving it and that is not your fault. It should be a given. The right person will never make you feel that way. Like you need to limit yourself. You should be made to feel unapologetically confident in giving every ounce of love that you can. If that person isn’t making you feel that way then girlies all together now what are we going to tell them to do? fuck off xox

I literally have a voice note on my phone from last year where I was in the exact position I’m talking about now. Feel like I had so much love to give but knowing I wasn’t with the right person to give it to. I felt confused. It took me a long time to realise that that person was not right for me and once I chose myself I found the person that will literally embrace every bit of love I have to give every. single. time.

You owe it to yourself to NOT be in a situation that limits you. That makes you feel like an inconvenience. That makes you question yourself. It should be the easiest thing in the world.

I love you all so much.

Lucy xxx