like butter wouldn’t melt 🧈

hey girlies!!! it’s wednesday and we are BACK with a brand new blog post for the week. welcome back everyone!!! let me just say we’ve been cooking this week. something so exciting. you may have seen a glimpse of it on my instagram feed this past week and already i just can’t wait to share more with you all! the girls are girling and i couldn’t be more excited 🧁

let’s talk about mistaking kindness for weakness. because sometimes i feel it’s apparent that the general consensus is; kind people don’t have any bite. their standards aren’t high enough. like you could wrong them and they would just take it with no consequences.

let me just put that to rest right now🫠

trust me when i say the kindest people are the most powerful 🤏🏻you can be a kind person; A GOOD PERSON and also have boundaries and self-respect. believe me, if someone was to wrong me past the point of forgiveness, there is no way i would ever let them have access to me anymore because that’s a privilege that they don’t get to have. you can be a kind person and say no. you can be a kind person and break up with a boy that isn’t treating you the way you deserve to be treated. you can be a kind person and WALK AWAY. because the strongest thing you can do is leave a situation that doesn’t not serve you anymore. you can be a kind person and practise confidence when you look in the mirror and say i look so fucking good today. as much as you are kind to others, your number one kindness priority should be you. period. you’re number one always. because if you don’t look after yourself first, you’re not going to be able to give your all to other people.

don’t ever apologise for being a kind human being. it’s so important. if people want to treat you badly and give you a reason to bite then let them do that!!! it’s never a reflection on your character, just simply that they fumbled the bag that can no longer be returned to sender. the end.

i hope you all have a lovely rest of your week and that you strut down the street with your tits high to the sky and remember who the fuck you are 🌟

love

lucy xxx