IRIS IN A WORLD OF JASPERS.

Hey besties and a happy new blog post day to you all! We are officially in December omgggg here we goooooo 🎄🌟🍾🤍🥹

I watched my first Christmas film of 2025 this week. The Holiday. My favourite Christmas film ever. I’ve always absolutely ADORED the film and it is such a comfort watch for me however it reallllyyyy hit differently this year. If you haven’t seen it; stop reading this right now and go and watch it what are you doing?!? BUT if you have then let’s talk about one of my fave scenes from the movie. Essentially the scene where Iris tells Jasper to f*ck off. I’ve always loved that scene for so many reasons. Firstly his face is priceless. Literally speechless. Thank god. She’s found herself again. She’s not basing her self-worth on a silly little man. She’s taking off the rose coloured lenses and is seeing things for how they are. Understanding that the way this man has behaved is DISGUSTING. She’s not taking any sh*t. This year, I was Iris. I had to pull an Iris and WOW did it feel good. Realising that I literally would not stay in a situation that didn’t serve me and telling said person to literally F off. Incredible xox

The character development is just SENSATIONAL. You can literally see her GLOWING after she makes that shift from accepting his behaviour to realising oh yeah I won’t be treated this way anymore. Be an Iris in a world of Jaspers. Leave the situation that doesn’t serve you to make room for the people that will. Trust me when I say it’s worth it. Literally just to have that movie moment. She slams the door. The score starts playing. She’s FREE. The heartbreak may be painful at the time but you will come out of the other side GLOWING. The happiest you have ever been. I always used to think feeling nothing but peace in a relationship was a myth. It’s because I wasn’t with the right person BUT I understand that now because I had to kiss a few frogs along the way. It teaches you so much and it the time I was so confused and hurt as to why it had to be me that went through that. Now I get it. It was all part of the plot and I’m the leading lady of it baby, how could I have ever forgotten that? It just felt like such a full circle moment for me. I was literally sat with H just thinking yeah it really was all worth it. If I could tell Lucy at the start of summer what was about to happen, that heartbreak would’ve disappeared very quickly. Here’s to healing and happiness. Single or not. You are a priority. Celebrate yourself for than ever 🫶🏻

Have the best week. The countdown is on.

Lots of love

Lucy xxx